The Hardest Part

How can you possibly move on?


When all you think about is him?

Moving on is the hardest part of love. It's like someone's stabbing you for several times, that you were burning alive. That's how painful it is.

You don't know when will the pain ends. Sometimes it last for years. And sometimes you thought that you've already move on but when you see him, you remember everything in the past, like some kind of a flash back in some drama movies.

If you're forcing yourself to move on, you're just hurting yourself more than ever. You're just bringing all those memories back and hoping that there's still another "YOU and HIM".

Someone told me before:

"Try to use somebody else to forget him!"

But I didn't do it. I don't want to add those people who suffer from lying and cheating of another man.

But how could we move on?
This is the question that everyone ask.

For me, going out with my friends the whole day makes me feel that I have no problem at all, that I'm not suffering from any kind of pain. If you choose to be alone, you're just putting yourself in much sorrow. If you're alone, that's the time that you remember everything that happened to your life including your past relationship with him.

You may not know, maybe there's someone out there that's just waiting for you to move on. And he'll be the one who'll never hurt you. And will never make you cry.

Go out with you friends! Live your life to the fullest! Explore the world! Nobody wants to live in pain and grief.